In order to reach the orgasm without ejaculation I first learned how to separate the orgasm from the ejaculation, because these are two different things. Ejaculation is caused by the physical processes of sex muscle contractions and semen release. Since this is very pleasant we are used to think that this is the orgasm. I also thought so, but since this pleasure is very short I started to investigate whether there is any way how to last longer. Now I solved my premature ejaculation problem, and so I discovered the non ejaculatory orgasms.
Now I’m still able to experience the orgasm, but I do not ejaculate. If I’m not ejaculating then how it is possible to reach the orgasm? Let’s look at the pictures below.
Full body orgasm
The genital orgasm is caused by the ejaculation. For men it’s very fast because in the most cases it ends with a premature ejaculation. During this short time the woman is not able to reach the female orgasm and stays unsatisfied. If it repeats several times, this can be the reason for relationship break up, as it happened to me.
The full body orgasm is at the root different. And the largest secret for that is the pleasure awareness. It took some time for me to manage this while I finally succeed. In order to last longer in bed I learned how to slightly reduce the level of pleasure in order not to come too close to the point of no return, because after that the ejaculation becomes unavoidable. As you see on the charts the best way is to stay bellow “9”. Every time I feel I’m too close to the orgasm I’m calming down. So the pleasure goes – up and down, up and down, but all the time below the point of no return – this way I’m reaching several non ejaculatory orgasms. I take my time because lovemaking is more like a marathon not like a sprint.
The most amazing thing is that after several such waves something happens and all the body starts to shake from inside and tingling sensation are running all over my skin. The feeling is absolutely mind blowing because now I’ve reached the full body orgasm. It’s unbelievable because it’s much stronger than any genital orgasm I’ve experienced ever before, and once I’ve experienced that I don’t even want to return to the ordinary sex. Male multiple orgasm develops in waves, and every wave is higher than the previous one, only now I am closer to my partner in orgasm waves. Here I’m also slowing down from time to time, especially when my girlfriend starts to scream too loud.
How I managed to reach the multiple orgasm:
1. I’ve learned how to become aware of my pleasure level.
2. I’ve learned how to reduce the pleasure level when it’s becoming too intense.
3. I’ve learned how to manage the ejaculation edging by applying a special technique – sex or PC muscle squeezing. This is the muscle used to stop the urination. For most of men it’s absolutely untrained and that’s why they are suffering from premature ejaculation. It’s like babies cannot stand and are peeing in their pampers. As the babies can learn how to control the peeing, the adults also can learn how to control the ejaculation because this is the same muscle.
4. I’ve learned a secret thrusting method, by applying it I can give her unbelievable pleasure while she starts to scream, but at the same time I can stay calm and last longer. And she even doesn’t know what exactly I’m doing.
5. I’ve learned proper breathing, because this is a tool how to control the pleasure levels.
6. I’ve learned proper mindset because the ejaculation is not any more the target.
7. I’ve even learned a proper foreplay because this is very important to warm up the woman. I do it sexually, sensually and continue with inside massage. After that she is mad about me.
I can orgasm without ejaculation and I’m very proud of that. My girlfriend is very happy, almost crazy about me and I’ve never had so good relationship as now.
If the reason for lasting longer would be only the sexual pleasure, you wouldn’t have to bother so much. But the largest problem is your relationship. If you are not able to satisfy your woman, sooner or later your relationship will crack. Most of men don’t even suspect that and when the relationship is breaking apart they try to fix it with help of psychotherapist and spending tons of money completely useless because the reason is very simple – a sexually unsatisfied woman.
If the woman is not satisfied, everything is bad. She can adapt for a while, but anyway she will accumulate this dissatisfaction, become crusty and mess up your brain. Sooner or later she can become unfaithful and have a bit on the side. Most of women have nothing against several guys riding them, but generally only one can be even more than enough, if he has a rock hard erection, full control and last longer.
Male orgasm without ejaculation has also other benefits. You will never know impotence or suffer any sexual dysfunction. Instead you will charge your batteries because long hours of lovemaking fill up your energy reservoirs, and this will let you feel more vigorous than ever before. You will be able to make love as long as you want. Kissing and caressing is pleasure itself, as well the pleasure of penetrating her as long as she can stand. And generally you will strengthen your relationship and become a charismatic Alpha male. If your girlfriend has had previous boyfriends, she will forget them all and you will be the only one for her.
To reach the male multiple orgasms you should master your ejaculation that can be acquired through special exercises.
Before you managed the ejaculation control
After you managed the ejaculation control and reached the orgasm without ejaculation
According to the Tantric love concept, the males during one coition can reach several orgasms by mastering the ejaculation edging. This is possible because ejaculation and orgasm are two different things, although we still think it’s the same, but it’s not. That’s the reason why most of males don’t even know about their possibilities to reach a non ejaculatory orgasm, which naturally turns to the male multiple orgasms. In order to reach that the males should first learn how to master their ejaculation control.
Male sexuality is wrongly reduced to one unavoidable goal – ejaculation. Probably you have already heard something like “with this stuff you will get your orgasm in 5 min” or similar . Males are spoiling their ability to last longer already at early age by masturbation to get a quick orgasm, men are getting used to it and later in life when they meet a woman, they repeat the same and are suffering from ejaculation without orgasm. Instead of focusing on the ejaculation you should better focus on the orgasmic love process by turning a short lovemaking into a long lasting pleasure full with orgasmic peaks. According to my experience, after cumming the pleasant sensations disappear very quickly, but if I have reached multiple orgasms, the pleasure accompanies me all the day, not even talking about the fact that such orgasm is absolutely mind-blowing, and I finish lovemaking not because of cumming, but because my girlfriend cannot withstand any more.
Orgasm without ejaculation is the best thing the male can reach in lovemaking. You don’t believe, but it’s possible, and when you reach this level you will feel like a superman, and the girls will be completely crazy about you. Just your presence will make them aroused. Nothing will increase your dignity so than this experience. You can have the orgasm, but by mastering the ejaculation edging you will have a full control of your erection and sexual desire. You will be able to maintain your erection as long as you want and give countless rocking orgasms to her as long as she can withstand, and you also will be able to enjoy as many orgasms as you want. You will become doubtless the sexual authority for your female partner; you will gain her supreme respect and raise your manly pride. You will become a multi-orgasmic man. There is no greater pleasure than this.